TY  - BOOK
AU  - Yalom Irvin D
TI  - The Gift of Therapy: An Open Letter to a New Generation of Therapistsand their Patients
SN  - 978-0-7499-2373-0
U1  - 616.8914 23
PY  - 2002///
CY  - London
PB  - Piatkus
N1  - Chapter 1	Remove the Obstacles to Growth	
Chapter 2	Avoid Diagnosis (Except for Insurance Companies)	
Chapter 3	Therapist and Patient as "Fellow Travelers"
Chapter 5	Be Supportive	
Chapter 6	Empathy: Looking Out the Patient's Window	
Chapter 7	Teach Empathy	
Chapter 8	Let the Patient Matter to You	
Chapter 9	Acknowledge Your Errors	
Chapter 10	Create a New Therapy for Each Patient	
Chapter 11	The Therapeutic Act, Not the Therapeutic Word	
Chapter 12	Engage in Personal Therapy	
Chapter 13	The Therapist Has Many Patients; The Patient, One Therapist	
Chapter 14	The Here-and-Now--Use It, Use It, Use It	
Chapter 15	Why Use the Here-and-Now?	
Chapter 16	Using the Here-and-Now--Grow Rabbit Ears	
Chapter 17	Search for Here-and-Now Equivalents	
Chapter 18	Working Through Issues in the Here-and-Now	
Chapter 19	The Here-and-Now Energizes Therapy	
Chapter 20	Use Your Own Feelings as Data	
Chapter 21	Frame Here-and-Now Comments Carefully	
Chapter 22	All Is Grist for the Here-and-Now Mill	
Chapter 23	Check into the Here-and-Now Each Hour	
Chapter 24	What Lies Have You Told Me?	
Chapter 25	Blank Screen? Forget It! Be Real	
Chapter 26	Three Kinds of Therapist Self-Disclosure	
Chapter 27	The Mechanism of Therapy--Be Transparent	
Chapter 28	Revealing Here-and-Now Feelings--Use Discretion	
Chapter 29	Revealing the Therapist's Personal Life--Use Caution
Chapter 30	Revealing Your Personal Life--Caveats
Chapter 31	Therapist Transparency and Universality	
Chapter 32	Patients Will Resist Your Disclosure	
Chapter 33	Avoid the Crooked Cure	
Chapter 34	On Taking Patients Further Than You Have Gone	
Chapter 35	On Being Helped by Your Patient	
Chapter 36	Encourage Patient Self-Disclosure	
Chapter 37	Feedback in Psychotherapy	
Chapter 38	Provide Feedback Effectively and Gently	
Chapter 39	Increase Receptiveness to Feedback by Using "Parts"	
Chapter 40	Feedback: Strike When the Iron Is Cold	
Chapter 41	Talk About Death	
Chapter 42	Death and Life Enhancement	
Chapter 43	How to Talk About Death	
Chapter 44	Talk About Life Meaning	
Chapter 45	Freedom	
Chapter 46	Helping Patients Assume Responsibility	
Chapter 47	Never (Almost Never) Make Decisions for the Patient	
Chapter 48	Decisions: A Via Regia into Existential Bedrock	
Chapter 49	Focus on Resistance to Decision	
Chapter 50	Facilitating Awareness by Advice Giving	
Chapter 51	Facilitating Decisions--Other Devices	
Chapter 52	Conduct Therapy as a Continuous Session	
Chapter 53	Take Notes of Each Session	
Chapter 54	Encourage Self-Monitoring	
Chapter 55	When Your Patient Weeps	
Chapter 56	Give Yourself Time Between Patients	
Chapter 57	Express Your Dilemmas Openly	
Chapter 58	Do Home Visits	
Chapter 59	Don't Take Explanation Too Seriously	
Chapter 60	Therapy-Accelerating Devices	
Chapter 61	Therapy as a Dress Rehearsal for Life	
Chapter 62	Use the Initial Complaint as Leverage	
Chapter 63	Don't Be Afraid of Touching Your Patient	
Chapter 64	Never Be Sexual with Patients	
Chapter 65	Look for Anniversary and Life-Stage Issues
Chapter 66	Never Ignore "Therapy Anxiety"	
Chapter 67	Doctor, Take Away My Anxiety	
Chapter 68	On Being Love's Executioner	
Chapter 69	Taking a History	
Chapter 70	A History of the Patient's Daily Schedule	
Chapter 71	How Is the Patient's Life Peopled?	
Chapter 72	Interview the Significant Other	
Chapter 73	Explore Previous Therapy	
Chapter 74	Sharing the Shade of the Shadow	
Chapter 75	Freud Was Not Always Wrong	
Chapter 76	CBT Is Not What It's Cracked Up to Be ... Or, Don't Be Afraid of the EVT Boogeyman	
Chapter 77	Dreams--Use Them, Use Them, Use Them	
Chapter 78	Full Interpretation of a Dream? Forget It!	
Chapter 79	Use Dreams Pragmatically: Pillage and Loot	
Chapter 80	Master Some Dream Navigational Skills	
Chapter 81	Learn About the Patient's Life from Dreams	
Chapter 82	Pay Attention to the First Dream	
Chapter 83	Attend Carefully to Dreams About the Therapist	
Chapter 84	Beware the Occupational Hazards	
Chapter 85	Cherish the Occupational Privileges	
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